This is the final pillar of a 5 pillar series that I’m writing for adventurous risk takers looking to change their lives by taking more chances.
Anyone can do something crazy, but it takes a little more finesse to do it great, and the steps aren’t as well known as you might think.
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Throw Away Plan B
When I was first laid off at my last job, my mind went about 10 different directions all at once. I knew I wanted to strike out on my own, but I wasn’t sure exactly what I wanted to do.
Actually, that’s not true. I knew I wanted to work online. I knew I wanted to write. I knew I wanted to make music and create art. So naturally, the first thing I did was gather as many letters of recommendations as I could and blast my resume all over town.
Can you see a problem here?
I wanted a Plan B. I wanted a rock-solid Plan B. I wanted an escape hatch that I could crawl through if this whole “follow my dreams” thing didn’t pan out. Of course, I hadn’t even given myself half a chance to succeed yet, but you know, better safe than sorry.
This is conventional wisdom. Even most entrepreneurs suggest you should have something in your pocket to fall back on if Plan A goes to pieces.
That’s why what I’m abot to say is probably going to be pretty unpopular. Most will call it irresponsible. But that’s okay, this is a website about taking risks, so I’m going to say it anyway:
You should ditch your Plan B.
If you know deep down what you want (and I think everyone does, but most are afraid to allow themselves to believe it) then you should avoid having a Plan B at all cost. If you already have one, you should do everything within your power to dismantle it. Plan B is a major distraction to Plan A.
Plan B, much like consumer credit, is an overly glorified concept. For all its praise, it saves very few people and quietly strangles the dreams of countless others.
Think about it. In every case, Plan A is a difficult one. It’s hard to follow and you’re not even sure exactly where it will lead. Plan B, on the other hand, is a sure thing. You’ve probably even had some success with it before. When you’re juggling the two, Plan B gets more and more defined and acceptable as Plan A gets harder and harder.
Pretty soon, Plan B is the new Plan A and Plan A goes back to “dream” status. You’ll do it on the weekend and see where it goes, but for now, it’s back to accounting.
No offense to any accountants. I love numbers, but from my experience, most accountants don’t. That’s why I want them to abandon accounting as Plan B and, for God’s sake, eliminate it as Plan A.
In Seth Godin’s book, The Dip, he explains that everyone goes through a period of time in the development of their business, idea, movement, etc. where things seem to have plateaued. The thrill of starting is gone and success seems a long ways off.
When you’re in the dip, it’s imperative to know if its time to quit and try something different, or if there’s great opportunity in pushing through the rough patch.
Sometimes, quitting really is the right thing to do, but most of the time it isn’t.
Plan B makes this decision process very fuzzy, making it a lot easier to justify quitting when persevering is the right answer.
When getting all the licenses to open your exotic pet shop gets incredibly bureaucratic and your nerves are wearing down, it’s really easy to go back to the department store and sell shoes.
When your internet marketing company isn’t taking off like you expected it to and you’re running out of money, taking another soul-sucking job at the local advertising firm is a hell of a lot easier than shifting focus and trying a new approach you aren’t sure will work.
The problem is that Plan B is almost never something that will fulfill you, and that’s what makes it even less sustainable than your crazy Plan A. Before you know it, you can’t stand the advertising job anymore and you’re back to the same place again, dreaming up a new Plan A…and a new Plan B, just in case. Rinse. Repeat.
What’s the alternative?
So, if what you’re looking for is a truly sustainable and fulfilling future, the only thing to do is embrace the risk you face and toss Plan B out the window.
Once Plan B is gone, Plan A has to get a lot better. That’s okay, though, since now you don’t have anything else distracting you.
The new answer is a series of Plan As. There’s no way to tell if it’s going to work, but as long as you’re adaptable, plan A.1, A.2, A.3 and so on are a lot more likely to get you where you want to go.
Like I mentioned in the planning article, the dream remains – it’s set in stone. But, the plan to achieve it is infinitely adaptable.
And that’s exactly where I’m at. I want to make a living creating art that changes people. Art can exist in many forms and I bet, deep down, that’s probably what you want too – to change people with the work you do.
So today, I’m deleting, shredding, and otherwise eliminating all traces of any Plan B. Resume, gone. Recommendation letters, trashed. My skin is officially in the game. If you want proof, you should watch this video:
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Now over to you. What Plan B is distracting you from your goals right now? What can you do to eliminate it? Let me know in the comments.
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Yea! I love this post. We’ve chatted about this before – how we both were planning before & beyond an upcoming layoff. I had my business registered and name chosen a good 6 months before I was laid off. You were given a more surprising shove, but your mind was where it needed to be so you weren’t devastated.
“Once Plan B is gone, Plan A has to get a lot better.” – very true. I had people telling me in my first few weeks of business that I should be collecting letters of recommendation etc.. I never bothered – didn’t even come close. In fact I hope to be happily ‘unemployed’ for the rest of my awesome life. Never shall I burn those bridges (I still sub-contract from my old workplace), but I don’t need to be employed again.
Way to go, Torbjorn! No reason to burn bridges, but so important to distance yourself from an “unhealthy temptation.”
Wow! You are really walking the talk. Little too scary for me but hey, more power to you. Somebody (maybe your parents?) probably would have been happy to store that letter for you JUST IN CASE
Ha. Thanks for offer, mom, but this letter had to GO!
I am very much into your blog and read each new email I receive from you. I also read a quite old book By Napoleon Hill called Think and Grow Rich. There is a chapter in which he outlines this very principle. He interviewed some of the most wealthy men in America, and discovered that many of them simply threw any plan b they had;the reasoning behind this was to NOT allow themselves to be distracted from their main goals so there was no choice BUT to succeed. I was laid off in Jan. this year from a great job, and as such have revived my dream to be a successful musician. Since I am only receiving 240.00 per wk unemployment Ive had to supplement this income with some cash jobs as a painter. The 240.00 would cover my bills(barely), but I do have needs that wouldn’t be fulfilled. I want to make the break and go full-time rock star, but the uncertainty stops me. Any thoughts?
Atom, most of the full time musicians I know work at least a little part time on the side to supplement, but there are definitely opportunities to make a full-time living if you’re willing to do some really hard work and venture into territory unknown by most musicians.
Basically, the money isn’t necessarily in the music itself anymore, but you still have to make it and make it very well in order to prosper. Good luck!
ATOM,
I may be finding myself in the same situation as you. I want to make the break to full-time musician and there’s a good chance I’ll be getting laid off from job. Part of me wants to make the break on my own, but I have to admit, collecting a little wouldn’t hurt. Either way, I can’t wait to have the time back that I sit at my desk, so I can put it all into succeeding as a musician!
I had a similar experience. I was working an office job I hated but needed as I was raising 2 kids. I felt myself going numb and wanted out so badly. What did I do? I got another office job – which lasted 3 months before I got fired . . . . which was THE happiest day of my life . . . . until the next day when I realized without money coming in I couldnt pay the bills. So what did I do? Rinse, repeat. I am now an accountant (pause for laughter here) in yet another office! Can you appreciate why I LOVE this blog?!!!
Amanda, eventually we all reach a breaking point. Good luck finding yours.
I just stumbled across your blog today and I was so excited by this post that I was almost shouting “YES! RIGHT ON! THAT’S EXACTLY IT!” at my computer. Keep it up, and best of luck to you. You’ve really inspired me.
So glad I could help, Grace. Best of luck in ditching your own Plan B.
Haha,
I liked the end of your video. Good move, Tyler. I’m an extremist when it comes to shaping your destiny, and I agree: don’t have a plan B, because it distracts from plan A.
Use your crazy-ass focus on where you want to go, and then take massive action. Failing forward fast.
I really love this. Fact is, a letter is a really passive piece of armor. If we’re really on our game, the people who write those letters for us will gladly pick up the phone or recommend us in person.
Love the video – you’re a viking! After landing on distant shores, the leaders used to burn the boats to motivate the men. It was no turning back. Kill or be killed.
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This article is so timely. I’ve been wanting to set up a certain business, just got laid off and at last have the time and money to do it. However, my Plan B is clear, while Plan A has receded to the fuzzy background. This unconventional article will help to focus my energy more appropriately.
Tyler,
What about Pillar #3, ‘Escape Hatch’?
Isn’t a Plan B just another Escape Hatch?
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I think it depends on what the risk was in the first place, whether a Plan B helps or hurts or not….And understanding what success really means in your Plan A….
If you have begun your Plan A, you have already succeeded…if you haven’t hit your timeline goals along the way, doesn’t actually mean a failure…..If you have noted some “sub versions” of Plan A, and gone thru all of those pre-thought versions without getting anywhere, then you have to be prepared for “whatever’s next”……assuming a new path hasn’t presented itself along the way of doing Plan A……
Planning might be the key, here….How much or how little is done to begin with, and what types of planning it is, are the real issue….Some people might be better off planning not to plan to extensively, in the first place……
I’ve noticed as I was reading around this site, alot of people tend to think of risk in terms of employment (or money). Which is always a real risk, now a days. Risk in other areas of life sometimes need to have a backup, unless you are really a complete risk taker and can easily “go with the flow” of life….If your risk is to pick up and move to another area, for example, then it helps to have an alternative area picked out – unless you are ok with working a different type of job or potential housing problems in order to tough it out until you find your stability.
A person’s degrees of accomplishment shouldn’t be planned out to thoroughly. Or those won’t work out either….Keep it simple, and keep options open, and usually Plan Bs never need to be put into action…..
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great series alltogether! “the odds are against you” – very true!
Great series, and just what I needed. Thank you very much!